that is fair. and it is love we believe and trust. it is love that lets us know loving someone is loving everything of his/her: good or bad, rich or poor, high and low, up and down. it is love that we learn how to love, how to appreciate, how to tolerate, how to be patient, how to sacrifice, how to make the other one happy, how to make the other one ends meet, how to cover the other one shortnesses, how to embrace everything s/he has, how to give other one space to breathe, how to give other one freedom to fly, and how to fly freely, happily, and jointly. bless you.